Silent Conversations

...when she's tired of ranting out loud...

This has been one full-of-crap day.

so there... i deserve to be berated.

i confess.

posted by: wawayni at 17:41 | link | whisper it to me, baby [ comments ]

On Temptation:

Sinful pleasures

Simple measures

posted by: wawayni at 11:10 | link | whisper it to me, baby [ comments ]

"Thank you"

The best way to handle a compliment is by saying

"thank you."

                   there is no...

* need to counterargue the kind thought.

* need to apologize or deny the truth about yourself.

* need to muse, whether or not you deserve it.

                   because....

it is a gift wrapped in words. So, take it. That's that.

"Thank you."

posted by: wawayni at 13:28 | link | whisper it to me, baby [ comments ]

I stand corrected..

"I guess that was it, huh? Could've been a lot worse if you knew

about the truth. I'm so happy for all the self-control I managed to

squeeze out of my guts."

Thank you for the company and I'm truly sorry it had

to be you. You have plenty of personal concerns to worry

about, and to do you a favor, I do not intend to be part of it."

                         (8 minutes later...)

But... now I'm very flabbergasted, because you just walked

into my room. Uninvited. Unexpected. A pure "on-your-own"

gesture. Silly me. Here I was writing my Ultimo Adios entry

about our almost "real" friendship. Little did I know that you

have no intention of trashing it. Thank you.

I've made a lot of misjudgements, and your presence in this

humble room of mine not only disproves my assumption but

taunts me so effortlessly that I go all red.

 

Now if you would excuse me, I'd like to splash cold water on

my face and welcome you back. My friend.

posted by: wawayni at 13:18 | link | whisper it to me, baby [ comments ]

who would have thought, huh?!

posted by: wawayni at 17:47 | link | whisper it to me, baby [ comments (1) ]

Pain is a great teacher..

if one is willing to go through it,

smart enough to avoid it

or  ingeniously clever to laught at it.

posted by: wawayni at 17:32 | link | whisper it to me, baby [ comments (2) ]

What I didn't know..... then

that committing your life to an almost perfect guy is not a guarantee that your relationship will last forever, nope.

that pleasing everyone who thinks they have some say bout the relationship is damn hard and sometimes very unnecessary.

that understanding is more than giving; it is sacrifice in its most cruel form.

that ignoring differences is comparable to a shit lying on the street; you know it's there and you're left to choose between removing it or leaving it be.

that caring and being paranoid are worse when inquiring about your "significant (sick) other" whereabouts. Because you inadvertently get hurt and suffocated by your own foolishness in the end. (girl get a life!)

that most of the things two committed person say remain unaccomplished when hurt becomes the counselor.

that most promises (no matter how unintentional) are actually made to be broken. Particularly, this crap of a thought: "I will never change." To which every sane girl should retort with a "What the hell do you mean?"

Finally, that men are not born losers (nope.); they just happen to fall in love.

posted by: wawayni at 18:58 | link | whisper it to me, baby [ comments ]

It pays to read....

"That is what happens to those who pluck and eat fruits at the wrong time

and in the wrong way. The fruit is good, but they loathe it ever after."

"When things go wrong. You'll find they usually go on getting worse for

some time; but when things once start going right  they often go better

and better."

(C.S. Lewis, Chronicles of Narnia, Magician's Nephew)

posted by: wawayni at 17:56 | link | whisper it to me, baby [ comments ]

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